Brothas, Would This Hurt?

[river]

My aunt was telling me about her three month old grandson. She said he has to get pretty cuz he can't get no uglier. It reminded me of when I was a teenager and there was this boy in our neighborhood who although he didn't look all that bad to me, but all the girls said he was ugly. I mean no one could mention his name without smaddy saying he was ugly. It seemed to bounce off him without any visible effect. But I wonder.

Makes me wonder does this hurt or is it a badge of honor? I know men are allowed to be a bit more, how shall I say, rough around the edges than women but does it do something to the self esteem of a young boy when girls call him ugly?

I know a guy who weighs about three hundred pounds and looks like the last thought I'd have just before committing suicide yet the girls flock around him like he's Dr. J or sumptin. So how can a man be ugly and sexy at the same ti?

 

[$$RICH$$]

you can be ugly and sexy at the same time ....just think the sexy pretty cute man
you see pose a cold heart show ugly ways and talk dirty and u see this no so good looking
guy with a beautiful heart warm smile and words so dearing ....well u have it
they both pose both

It would never bother me about how one see me because i always say the beauty is
in the eye of the beholder.....

 

[MenNefer]

Is "Seal" Handsome

Evidently Heidi Klum thinks so.

Biggie said he was "Black and ugly as ever" However, he said he stays Gucci down to the socks , rings and watch filled with rocks ....and his jam did knock

 

[Jahari Kavi]

i can't lie as a child I never thought I was the finest thing, lol. I was a fairly cute kid imo (certainly wasn't ugly, lol), but I couldn't start pulling til I was in highschool. Highschool is also when females started telling me I was cute.....but yeah it didn't bother me much as a kid, because my focus was on little kid things. But I couldn't imagine not looking like me....yeah that sounded conceded, but oh well, lol....................I guess if I thought I was ugly (in the eyes of many beholders) that I'd have to work that much harder on my game........

 

[Zulile]

I'm bound to think that when your own family calls you negative names from young, it will have an effect on self-esteem and ones view of the social world.

How can an 'ugly' man be attractive?
Charisma
Money
Known Sexual Prowress

to name a few...