Jazzymoonchild wrote: I wonder when it was determined universally that the black woman was almost the equivalent of the devil?? I am tired, personally, of being told how evil, materialistic and needy black women are. If there is a bad trait or character flaw, somehow it is attributed to us.
Brothers demand things from us on a daily. Don't get past a certain size, don't wear makeup or if you do, certain colors. Want us to dress in the clothes they prefer, down to our pajamas. Talk about our feet, teeth and whether or not we shave our private areas.
Judge each woman individually please. I don't lump all black men in one category and have never dated outside my race. I love black men too much, and will keep myself away from those who are undesirable to me.
I love your response and I could not agree with you MORE! This is the first site I've ever been a member of where the black men seem expect all of the participating women to be like every angry negative black woman they encounter. Some days it just seems like every post has negative remarks about how effed up we are. I often wonder if we give that vibe out to them as well...which is why I started that battle of the sexes post to give people a place to post something positive.
At any rate...I keep seeing posts on this site where we women complain about how we can't find good black men...yet I don't see a post where ONE of the women from this site said that. My initial response is to tell them to post that on the site they saw that compaint on...
I'm tired of all the messed up comments too Jazzy. I don't see half as many negative comments on this site coming from the women regarding black men.