Occasion: All the time
Factor 5: Listen
Reason: History shows that we black men are the original and greatest lovers. Our reputation lay in the ancient records in all Old World narratives. Modern romance novels are modeled from the incredible, earth-shattering acts of intimacy between a Black Woman and a black man. There's no doubt about that.
The word 'lover,' however, must transcend intimate relations colloquially known to us as sex. Sex is magical no doubt, but remember we're a spiritual people so we are more advanced than that act alone. We are great lovers not because of a single act but because of systems of acts. It, the word lovers, therefore must be extended into other areas of our lives as well.
Great lovers listen.
Consequently, having the honor of this title carries a responsibility to the ones who bestowed it upon us. So then it becomes a responsibility for us, as great lovers, to listen attentively to our Queens. Hear her out. Feel what she's saying...and perform.