Black Relationships : Breakups and Revenge

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Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
 

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The only reason to get revenge is if they stole something from you. Other than that,...…



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Revenge and it's soul destroying evil cousin jealousy are two of the most self destructive emotions on this planet. It has been said that if one embarks on a journey to exact revenge, they should dig two graves.
 

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Do those qualities stem from insecurities and fear of loss? Most of us believe in monogamous relationships so a lot of energy is vested into our partners/spouses. If/when partners cause us emotional pain and a sense of loss, then revenge and jealousy may find a feeding ground within us to grow unless we are emotionally stable.
 

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The only reason to get revenge is if they stole something from you. Other than that,...…



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Some people who are in monogamous relationships believe they "own" their partner/spouse. So, given your position, Keme, if someone caught their partner/spouse "cheating," would it be ok if the person who is hurt exacted revenge on the individual who they think "stole" their partner from them?
 

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Some people who are in monogamous relationships believe they "own" their partner/spouse. So, given your position, Keme, if someone caught their partner/spouse "cheating," would it be ok if the person who is hurt exacted revenge on the individual who they think "stole" their partner from them?


I get your point. But that's not what I mean




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Do those qualities stem from insecurities and fear of loss? Most of us believe in monogamous relationships so a lot of energy is vested into our partners/spouses. If/when partners cause us emotional pain and a sense of loss, then revenge and jealousy may find a feeding ground within us to grow unless we are emotionally stable.
Some people who are in monogamous relationships believe they "own" their partner/spouse. So, given your position, Keme, if someone caught their partner/spouse "cheating," would it be ok if the person who is hurt exacted revenge on the individual who they think "stole" their partner from them?
I get your point. But that's not what I mean




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Ha ha ha OMG. You two are very entertaining. This is not my usual tongue in cheek humor either. You two should have your own "Interpersonal Relationship" Destee blog. The problem with the marriage license law is it gives some individuals the illusion of some manner of ownership and control of a spouse. The sole reason why some men refuse to not only marry but not even risk a serious relationship including overnight visits is commitment. This is not the typical pantyhose hanging on the bathroom shower rod. This is the loss of freedom to do as one wishes without having to think twice or worst the fear of having to answer to a person who didn't raise you like mom or dad. In reality an equal partnership albeit business or interpersonal is successful in theory in Non-American cultures but an exercise in futility in our world. Can't have two bosses under the same roof. I don't have to rely on skewed statistical analysis, polls of anything else in writing but in my real world observation of friends, family and business associates. Seriously guy and girl. Start a blog. You both possess the knowledge, experience and personalities for it.
:argue::spank::hammer::bam::garbage::hammer1::yesno:
 

Kemetstry

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Ha ha ha OMG. You two are very entertaining. This is not my usual tongue in cheek humor either. You two should have your own "Interpersonal Relationship" Destee blog. The problem with the marriage license law is it gives some individuals the illusion of some manner of ownership and control of a spouse. The sole reason why some men refuse to not only marry but not even risk a serious relationship including overnight visits is commitment. This is not the typical pantyhose hanging on the bathroom shower rod. This is the loss of freedom to do as one wishes without having to think twice or worst the fear of having to answer to a person who didn't raise you like mom or dad. In reality an equal partnership albeit business or interpersonal is successful in theory in Non-American cultures but an exercise in futility in our world. Can't have two bosses under the same roof. I don't have to rely on skewed statistical analysis, polls of anything else in writing but in my real world observation of friends, family and business associates. Seriously guy and girl. Start a blog. You both possess the knowledge, experience and personalities for it.
:argue::spank::hammer::bam::garbage::hammer1::yesno:


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