Oh, yeah, people seriously limit their options by checking job titles. When I was 16, I made a list of everything my man HAD to have when I got married. Now that I'm almost 25, I find myslef re-evaluating a lot. I guess my question now is "does he have a job?" instead of "how much does he make?" There are good brothers walking around that work for UPS, Fed-Ex, in any of the automotive plants, the phone company, the cable company... But plenty of women (I'm using women because I AM a woman) overlook these brothers because they're not maing 6 figures and driving a Benz.....