Black Women : Black women are under attack

anyhoo.... black women are under attack... unlike the other sista i have not actually thought of it along those lines... i know that women, in general, are disrespected... i know that black people, collectively, are picked out and picked out... so i guess if you go along that line then yes... we are...

about ms. mckinney... the verdict is still out on that one... i'll have to do more research on that situation before i speak on it... what i've read so far doesn't paint her as much as a victim... fyi... she has been in similar situations in the atlanta area...
 
IfUComeSoftly[FONT=Verdana said:
i mean some people are being hypocrites here... it's OKAY to have premarital sex but it's DEPLORABLE when you have children outside of wedlock? Having sex is what gets you those babies... whether a person uses protection or not said person runs the risk of getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant... the act of sex was deplorable so how are the consequences of said actions deplorable?????[/FONT]

This is very true. If a man consistently has sex with a fertile female, and young women are VERY fertile, then she is likely to get pregnant--no matter what. NATURE plans for women to have babies, so unless she has abortions or uses some type of often health-damaging birth control, she will have babies. Even with birth control, there are numerous slip-ups because we're supposed to reproduce.
 
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Members are drifting from the topic as it is not about marriage or pregnancy. There are several good threads, however, that address those topics. In the mean time, what are your thoughts on whether Black women are under attack and what are the various forms that indicate this is happening?
 
from the phila daily news

Jenice Armstrong | A hairy issue

MY KINKY roots are showing.

I'm reflecting on their existence more than usual as the issue of black women's hair makes headlines. As I write this, a class-action suit against Dillard's department store is working its way through the legal system, accusing the chain of charging its black customers higher prices than whites for shampoos.

And who could forget the brouhaha in March when a guard had the temerity to block U.S. Rep. Cynthia McKinney's,D-Ga., entry into a House office building? Critics had a field day, saying that the congresswoman had gone unrecognized largely because she'd replaced what the Washington Post described as her "washerwoman" braids with a loose, Lenny Kravitz-like 'fro. McKinney, who struck the guard with a cell phone, became a laughingstock.

Meanwhile, Mablean Ephriam, formerly of "Divorce Court," was blaming hair for being at the root of her problems as well. Last month, she accused the Fox Entertainment Group of firing her because of her hair. Ephriam, who wore a wig last season, claimed Fox had demanded that she continue wearing it, saying it took too long to style her real hair. (Fox disputes her claim and said her firing had been over a money issue.)

Earlier this year, I wrote about how some business students at Hampton University had been prohibited from wearing "extreme" hairstyles, meaning dreadlocks, long braids or other non-mainstream looks. Some Daily News readers complained about my having questioned the historically black college's decision to have their students conform.

And then there was the disturbing case of the 7-year-old Memphis girl whose ballet teacher told her last fall she'd have to cut her dreadlocks to participate in a dance recital. Destini Berryeventually went on to perform, with her locks intact, but only after her mother threatened legal action.

As you can see, there's a silent but ongoing struggle going on about black women and our hair - how we wear it, whose hair we wear, or what we choose to do with it once it's on our heads. It's easy to blame the ignorance of racism. Frequently, that's the culprit.

Sometimes, though, it's self-imposed. There are the holier-than-thou among us who decry our wearing anything but the most natural of styles, meaning virgin, unprocessed locks. All kinds of political assumptions are made about people based upon their hair, often erroneously. What's amazing, though, is that black hair continues to be such a racially charged subject, especially to the point that stories about a woman's hair choices make newspaper headlines.

"When will Fox and the rest of America accept our cultural differences as African Americans and embrace us with all of our different hairstyles, hair textures, hair color... ?" Ephriam asked in the statement she released last month.

It's a hairy matter and one that shows that we, as a nation, still have a lot of growing to do.
 
SugarShark said:
I met a black family who has 3 adopted white children. I can only imagine how much of that behavior they have to do endure
panafrica said:
What does this have to do with the topic at hand?
met a black family?

who is this poster and what are they?
why are they here?
 

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