LOL......he was probably thinking ooh boy! will ya get some more batteries for my toy mom?
Yes, I think you're right ...
Feeding of the dog/s fall into a couple different camps.
I've heard plenty of handlers that suggest your strategy.
My self I fall into the camp of once the dog is given his food it should be let alone and not bothered. The dog is already dependent on you for his food putting you into the alpha roll already, so there's no need to hassle him over his food dish once it's in front of him. Imo to do otherwise wounds the pack structure and can break down trust and bonding. i.e.. within the pack structure, the leader (alpha dog) never goes back after they've left the meal to reclaim what they've left until the the lower ranks have sated themselves and left the meal on their own. The only thing the alpha claims rights to is first dibs and desert isn't until everyone else is done eating; the alpha does not give and then take away.
But that's me.
I'm with you. I don't have to bother him often, after he's started eating, but if I do, I can. Our routine is for me to feed him, and then I go and give him fresh water. When I'm walking back past him after this, he stops and waits for me to pet him and say, "Good boy, eat your food."

... It's a part of our routine now. One day I walked on up the stairs past him, and he stood there looking at me, like "didn't you forget something?" So I went back and petted him on the head, said "Good boy, eat your food." and he went back to eating ...

... he's such a good boy!
Thinking back, I can remember meeting only about a half dozen Rott's in my life. And though I've never tested their limits or the edges (if you will) every one I've met seemed to have a balanced and clear head about them. And I'd probably trust a Rotti further with meeting a child than I would with my present very sharp GSD. And I allow mine to meet children or any person when ever the occasion happens.
I think you've taken the wrong track with him by not allowing Black to meet and even be among or to walk among strangers. How is he to know they aren't all the enemy? You have to be careful when tightening that leash..........between your avoidance and the tightening your fear and nervousness signals down through the leash putting the dog on edge. That's how he reads it. All those 'people' types are your enemy and by extension his as well.
German Shepherds are beautiful dogs. When I was a child, it was my favorite and what I thought I'd get, when I could get my own dog. Yeah, you're right again. I have probably done it all wrong. There are so many things that I know I've done wrong, so yes, add this to the list. I've often said, I wish I could start over. The thing is, I don't have a lot of children or people around me. I'd have to have it myself, in order to give it to him. It's just not a part of our life. I can see what you're saying too, about me tensing up on his leash. Whew. He probably feels all of my insecurities, and I do have some. I catch myself sometimes, feeling the wrong thing around him. Yep, what can you expect from the baby, when the momma is krae krae ...
All interactions between children and (any) dog should always be supervised both for the dog sake and the child's. ALWAYS.
I trust the child much less than the dog. The dog is predictable, eh eh not so the child's behavior.
Right. I'm with you. Any interaction he has with children, will be a massive fail on my part, as this is not our life. I'm thinking if he broke out or something, maybe then it could happen. He did break out once, when he was much younger, and went on the front porch waiting for me to notice. Oh gosh. I did panic, but he just waited on the front porch for me. I fortified the fence then, haven't had that issue again, but it would be something like that. He does not just happen upon children in his regular life, or them on him.
Thanks soooo much
@ogoun!
I've not been around lately, like I want, but I am back!
Thanks for your love.
I was thinking, if I had to get rid of Black - who do you give a big, grown, swole, Rottie to?! There are probably not a lot of people willing to take on such a task. But I would surely ask you to take him, if we were closer in proximity. It would be important for me to know he is with someone that would love him
Love You!
Destee