Please quit gaguing our love for you by YouTube. According to Youtube videos made by users, black men hate black women and black women hate black men. All you're going to get there is the vicious cycle, and the few videos by black men and women who love each other. Yes, it's upsetting that we have more videos pushing hatred than love. You'll get the same ratio on Facebook and similar social media outlets.
I'd rather hang around, stick to, and flock to areas where love is shown, period. Many times, I feel down because my area is full of people who have the wrong ideas, motives, and mindsets, always making the case that real black love is dead. So I come here. I was down today, and the three sistas who said they'd be done if there were no black men left made my day. It let me know that there is still real black love out there.