Black Women : Black Men, What Do You Admire About Us?

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  1. Adisa Hendrix

    Adisa Hendrix Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    For all of the men/brothers on the board, what is it that you admire about us black women?

    With all the hate against us, it is important that we regularly give our women self-esteem.

    I will also accept more honest opinions, if anything within ourselves is causing problems with black love.

    We do need to talk more to resolve why we are not seeing what we should when it comes to relationships.
     
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    And for those with more successful relationships, please share what you did to keep the magic going... especially if you have at least 1 child.

    I don't want to cause discord against those without any kids, but relationships tend to get harder and more challenging once a child comes into play.
     
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    "black women" who?

    and.. How can someone "give" another person SELF-esteem?

    and.. welcome to destee.com..
     
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    You can give another person self-esteem by telling them how wonderful and beautiful they are.

    Because to me all of us are beautiful. If you tell someone how wonderful they are, I can guarantee you they will gain better self-esteem and share their positive energies with the world, especially in our community.
     
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    The beauty that exudes from a Black woman that a blind man can feel when she walks by, and the melody in her rhythm and vibe that a deaf man can hear. no other race or ethnicity of women at least on this planet have that!
     
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    Your inquisitive nature.
     
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    Peace,

    I like the strength, the tenacity, the curves, the "soul," the beauty, the intelligence, I could go on......
     
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    Your Soul, personality, beauty, intelligence and most importantly your Divine Nature.
     
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    WoW, there is so much to say.
    An African woman's inner-self says it all.

    I love the way you walk, the way you are with our children, the moves you take to be with me. The way you touch my inner being.
    The smile in your eyes, when you say nothing at all. We have created three increadable beings together. You have created me, again and again.

    AXE
     
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    Personally I think that this is a misinformed question. I think that our people have fallen pray to the media and this garbage talk about black men not wanting black women. I will give you something to read and then you tell me what black men think of black women.

    http://blackdemographics.com/households/marriage-in-black-america/

    What I love about our sistas is really hard to sum up in words. Our women can be everything and anything when they put their minds to work which is the most powerful aspect of our women. Physically there is no equal in beauty or physique. Intellectually, our women cannot be comprehended though they are the most misunderstood. When a sista smiles at me I am filed with excitement because I know she approves - which is to say our sistas is a motivating factor which makes me want to hold her, protect her and admire her and connect with her.

    So many words can be said but to inspire a sista is a key point for me yet to build a sistas self-esteem is a turn off because she's dependent upon someone from the outside instead of her internal knowing-ness which confirms that she is beautiful, intelligent and without question the queen of this domain called earth.
     
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