Black Relationships : Black men: how do you feel when you see a Black woman romantically involved with a non-Black man?

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  1. Ictoan Itkfae

    Ictoan Itkfae Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Peace Brothers,

    I was just curious about how other Brothers feel when they see this.

    When I see it, something seems to upset me and I'm not sure what it is, but in my heart I know that people should do whatever makes them happy as long as it does not violate someone else unjustly.
     
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    I come from an area where this type of thing is common. Large parts of my extended family tree are biracial. Well...all African Americans are multiracial... Some more so than others, though, I'm pretty dark skinned...

    When I see it I don't care. What annoys me is if someone who is black just has a reverence for white people or white females. There's this black kid I was just arguing with on YouTube who literally worships white women. That type of thing annoys me.

    To be honest, I don't see how it's possible for every black woman to date a black man, because black women outnumber black men by quite a bit, currently.
     
  4. Ictoan Itkfae

    Ictoan Itkfae Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Yeah...it might depend on the woman but some Sisters might prefer no man to a White man.
     
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    I live in Los Angeles where IR relationships are very common so it don't phase me one iota.
     
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    Does not bother me unless I know she excludes black men because of self loathing or black male hate. And I would keep my opinion to myself because its none of my business.
     
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    I have stronger feelings about the "roman"tic part than the "involved" part.
    this life is short.. wherever you can negotiate genuine love and acceptance, go there and take it.. it's your life.. and when it's done; it's done.
     
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    For my own personal reason, I'm not a big fan of it. I've seen too many times where there was evidence of self hate on one of the participants behalf. I also believe that who you date/marry is one of if not, the biggest political decisions that one can make!! With that said, I'm not going to disrespect the multitude of family or friends that I know who are involved in these relationships. If asked, I state my opinion and move on!!
     
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    There are exceptions to what I said.
     

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