Atleast in my city. I live in a suburb of atlanta. is it the same for other cities around the country? Recently everytime I go out I overhear Black Men referring to themselves as a you know what. and these are not your typical gay men. These men are masculine looking and ordinarily you wouldn't even know that they're gay. I just recently learned that the whole World has basically been gay since Ancient times but still this is going to take a little bit of time for me to get use too I guess.