Black People : Black Mans Response to White White Women on Interracial Dating

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  1. PoeticManifesta

    PoeticManifesta Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    RESPONSE
    Dear Jamie:

    I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a
    house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black
    men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people.
    I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white
    women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated
    white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost
    it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for
    someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because
    >they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
    insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
    the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be
    more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
    own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more
    docile woman. Someone we can control.
    I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on
    how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want
    to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that
    not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
    Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out
    of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop
    thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
    Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were
    ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves
    of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with
    clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.
    It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
    husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and
    being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love
    and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their
    ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why
    I have fallen in love with black women.
    I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
    >proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
    voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have
    what the black woman has.

    BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk
    over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.
    Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am
    looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
    you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

    No offense taken, none given!
    Signed Black Royalty
     
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    This is one of the most recycled pieces on the internet.
     
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    Well, it's nice how he stood up for black women, but I don't agree with the 'white women are more docile and sexually easy,' argument. The fact of the matter is that white women have been placed on a pedastal when compared to other women. If you have a white woman on your arm you have a trophy... if you have a black woman on your arm nobody cares.

    Black men who decide to date white women for reasons other than true love are doing it because they think white women are better period. There is nothing a black woman can do to convince him otherwise. For that matter, there's nothing a white woman could do to change his mind either, because he'll still go after them despite the negative experiences.
     
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    How ironic!!!????! The threadstarter.
     
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    Neither one of these letters solves anything, and they are both equally ignorant.
     
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    Like Pan said, I've seen this "article" on numerous other black websites.

    I'm beginning to think it's more of an urban legend than an actual article.

    I'm not a big fan of black-white relationships myself, however ficticious stories of successful black men showing exaggerated platitudes won't help the situation.
     
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    yaphet al-wynn Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Has anyone ever seen Poetic Manifesta's prior posts and my initial reaction to this? As Rafa'il kinda touched on.
     
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    lol..

    To what does my prior posts, and my intrest in the actual subject and criticizms have to do with this? I am a student of my enviorment, and yes the article does actually exist.. as a 5year suscriber of sister 2 sister it popped up about 3 years ago... we have many criticizms on interracial dating, and appeal of such.. but i just want to see what the men and women of destee, have to say about the response.. not the subject.. I see that we cant see beyond that... but this man, made an incredibly moving statement.. on how much he loves black women, ... so to lead the forum back onto the right track.. i ask,
    What is it about the Black Woman do YOU love so much, and can you identify with this mans point of view, as to why so many men go towards the pale people.
     
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