Brother Pan ... why post the same thing to my responses to Sister True, when you couldn't directly address my response to you?
You have yet to explain the contradiction of your own words, with your own actions, within this thread (and/or its Sister thread).
I'm all for us looking at the whole thing, the big picture, but eventually we'll have to drill down to the very specifics in order to solve the problem.
That's the part you all have trouble with. As long as you can group it with women and children, you're good, as it provides some deflection.
But address your collective issues on their own, without the protection of someone else's failure, you immediately get defensive and/or shut down.
It's a pattern now, that anyone can see ... well, except yall.
Love You!
Destee
So in other words you didn't really mean this:
The situation is so dire now, i'm willing to do anything that will work ... what will work ... anything ... i'll use it.
If you take the time to read what I've written. You will clearly see I didn't contradict myself in either thread.