Some posters continue to take sides merely based on how they feel the other gender isn't given them props here...Instead both need to give each other the benefit of the doubt, pat themselves on the back for even making past efforts to find resolutions to black male/black female conflicts, and just try harder to delve get their minds around what does plague them twice as hard...FYI...
Any time somebody feels and need to start a thread called 'Brothers need to leave 'snow white' along', heck yes there are unresolved black male/black females issues/problems/etc. we all need to face up to...! I'm just admitting the obvious...FYI...