- Feb 9, 2001
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I'm sorry to learn that about your eyes, Bro. James. I can understand why losing one's eyesight, especially as an older person after having sight for so many years, would be scary.
Personally, I don't "feel bad" for any sightless person because I've seen how some of them conquer obstacles and learn how to live their lives to the fullest way possible. I work with many people with disabilities, including blind people and they never cease to amaze me. It's not something to pity from my perspective, but to support and admire their resolve and positive attitudes.
As for William Cosby, now that he'll be going to trial, I'll let the jury pass judgment on him. But, I will say this before they do.
As a woman, I have always felt that one of THE MOST despicable things that could happen to a woman is to suffer a rape. Thinking about that happening to any woman hits me right in the core of my being in a violent way. I find it to be very disturbing. Maybe this is a weakness that I have but I own it. I have no compassion for anyone that rapes or sexually assaults people. Rape is not about sex, it's about power and violence. I have worked with women who were "victims" and I can tell you, you can't shower that experience away. It affects people psychologically and emotionally in some horrific ways long after the incident occurs. And for anyone to ruin somenone's life that way, gets no sympathy or empathy from me. You reap what you sow.
I don't care whether the perp is a celebrity, family member, friend or average Joe Smoe, I feel the same way and KNOW I could never or would ever be selected to serve on any jury where an alleged rapist was being tried. I am biased about that to the bone. But again, I own that and am unafraid to admit it.
Some might think, I have personal work to do, and, you may be right.
Personally, I don't "feel bad" for any sightless person because I've seen how some of them conquer obstacles and learn how to live their lives to the fullest way possible. I work with many people with disabilities, including blind people and they never cease to amaze me. It's not something to pity from my perspective, but to support and admire their resolve and positive attitudes.
As for William Cosby, now that he'll be going to trial, I'll let the jury pass judgment on him. But, I will say this before they do.
As a woman, I have always felt that one of THE MOST despicable things that could happen to a woman is to suffer a rape. Thinking about that happening to any woman hits me right in the core of my being in a violent way. I find it to be very disturbing. Maybe this is a weakness that I have but I own it. I have no compassion for anyone that rapes or sexually assaults people. Rape is not about sex, it's about power and violence. I have worked with women who were "victims" and I can tell you, you can't shower that experience away. It affects people psychologically and emotionally in some horrific ways long after the incident occurs. And for anyone to ruin somenone's life that way, gets no sympathy or empathy from me. You reap what you sow.
I don't care whether the perp is a celebrity, family member, friend or average Joe Smoe, I feel the same way and KNOW I could never or would ever be selected to serve on any jury where an alleged rapist was being tried. I am biased about that to the bone. But again, I own that and am unafraid to admit it.
Some might think, I have personal work to do, and, you may be right.