Black Relationships : Biggest Lesson..

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  1. Qatavia

    Qatavia Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    What is the biggest lesson you have learned from past relationships?????????

    For me:
    A tiger never changes its stripes.

    Those "signs" that a relationship will not work come EARLY and OFTEN. Paya attention.
     
  2. robboy2003

    robboy2003 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Try to eliminate things,that wrecked your last relationship. You can't change people.


    Love her constantly,consistently,and with concern!
     
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    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    Not to judge from the past relationship or let it reflect on the new

    love unconditionally open hearted and care free !
     
  4. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Stop looking for those who don't seek to be found.
    Love is not an idea but a choice.
    If they are running, let them.
    Some are in your life for a season, some are here to stay, acknowledge which one they are.
    Know who you are,instead of living your life through fantasies of others.
    Never compromise your heart for the sake of loneliness.
    If you love you, nothing and no one can tell you any different about you.
    Don't be quick to judge simply because that's what you have grown accustomed to.
    Be open to change as long as it doesn't compromise your morality and heart.
    No matter how cruel they may seem, treat them with kindness than walk away.
    Don't cry for someone that is making you cry.
    Listen to what they say and be wise in how you perceive it.
    Be honest about how you feel.
    Sex is sex and love is love,know the difference!!!!!!!
    If what you want is not what they want, yet you continue the relationship, donot be upset at the outcome.
     
  5. Sweet baby_face

    Sweet baby_face Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I learned not to get in a relationship if u
    don't want it.
    Not to create something that is not there.
    Not to hold on to a relationship if it is not working
    If a person wants to leave u, let them.
    There is no point in holding on to it if they don't want to hold on.
     
  6. LovNThySoul

    LovNThySoul Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Don't be a sucker and don't sucker yourself for love.

    If they really want you for you, they will show it. Otherwise it's a waste.

    Invest your life in what you love to do most, it is your passion and do you. Make sure it is creative.

    Always plan for many rainy days.

    And the biggest one.... faith in God means FAITH and total surrender of your life to Him.
     
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