Correction: Benefit of Dating Men/Women with Children. I would like to hear from men and women why they are not opposed to having a relationship with a person who has children. Why would you prefer this relationship over strictly courting a person who has never had the responsibility of caring for their own child or raising a child? Mua : I feel, simply, it is a chance for me to see what kind of father he is. Also its nice when single parents with children take interest in a person with children because the kids have other children to interact with and I think that's cool. Usually he/she may have one child and that child feels alone and longs for siblings even if they're not biological. In the case where one does not have children you get to see how he will treat your children and what type of relationship he wants to have with them. Some men/women are unable to love anothers child and treat their child more closely and with tender love and that's a sad situation to bring a child into, children notice the little subtle things though they may not say it to you.