I live in Saint Louis but I'm from Kansas City originally. My best friend lives there. She seems to have no problem whatsoever making friends with the opposite sex. It's never them asking her for sex or anything close to that. It's just simply having a good time and that's it. At times I envy this because this is what I've always wanted. Me on the other hand, I have lived here in Saint Louis for 6 years. and when my objective is just out for hanging out with friends. It's either I have to intend on being in a relationship with him, friends with benefits, or I am wasting their time. Is there something I may be doing to attract those type of people, because I just want friends to hang out with without any strings attached or have to have sex with them or anything close? If so, how can I attract people who want the same thing I want (just to hang out).