Black People : Before you have sex with her (for the brothers)!

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  1. carlhurd

    carlhurd Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    You know we all hear about education' put on of the things we need to be educated the most is about sex. One of the things that brothers do not need is an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy. Of course that’s not including getting a horrible disease. But it is time for brothers to take charge and don’t be so trusting. So here is a tool that you can use to help you reduce the chances of her getting pregnant http://www.ovulation-calculator.org/calendar.php. Be pro active in your decisions Don't allows rely on the woman to make the decisions The famous quote "HE GOT ME PREGANANT" don’t have to happen. Having a kid is a lot of work and cost a lot of money and sometimes can create a lot of drama.. Of course a condom is cool to. (There are also female condoms)
     
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    Condoms are more reliable. What you are talking about is also called the Rhythm method or Natural Family Planning.

    This is not a good method for casual sex or someone you are not comfortable barebacking it with. This is good for LTR and marriage where you would not be wholly disappointed in a pregnancy if it happened. This like a 30% failure rate or more, especially if a woman's has a non-regular cycle.
     
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    medusanegrita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Are you muslim or christian?
     
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    :fyi: no celibate has caught a disease......
     
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    Reminds me of that old joke...


    Question: What do you call a woman who uses the Rhythm Method?


    Answer: Pregnant.
     
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    medusanegrita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I find it kinda funny how you say BROTHAS need to take charge of sex and baby making.... by relying on the THE WOMAN'S ovulation and menstrual cycle :em3700:

    That is funny.

    I wish they would just come with a gotdarn pill or 1-5 year mini sterilization or chemical birth control already that will turn off sperm production or kill it at the source and not turn them back on again until a guy decides he's ready for a baby (in a stable LTR or marriage). That's taking REAL responsibility for sex and baby making, but it's doubtful that BLACK men would take it since that is where all their 'power' lies.... sex and baby making :em3700:


    For men... there is no birth control like child support :whip:
     
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    Got news for you, they are making progress for a new BC for men, and guess who is backing it... Bill Gates the profound Eugenicist.
     
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    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    good concept still over all
     
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