Black Relationships : Because i dont speak the intelectual language

LibertyLady

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Hi brothers and sisters...


i have this little problem..


because i dont (choose) speak the intelectual language ...



People Somethimes dont take me serius ...

or listen to me...

or see me as a little ....

low...


Plus because i most of the time kind and forgivable
they see that as less.....
and they think ...
"
well she forgives...


so i can maybe pull a stunt again..."

I makes them feel secure comvertable...
knowing that there will always be someone who will care for you...



i experiance this with a lot of people around me..


(believe me i can bark to i can get angry to
real angry.....
.........i am a human)




So what should i do..


stay myself...


or turn into this intelectual talking :hulk:

on other for them to hear me..


or should i just leave and and think...




ok ....

you dont want to hear me....



than not....
 
Like yOUUUUU!



you brought a smile on my face.....(thank you kente :heart: thanks lord for the sheep on this moment who spoke to me)



Yes youre right ......


why should i hang out with people who dont apriciate me...
or already have this prejudgement of me...and just keep me there


you know i think i forgot that point of love youre brothers and sisters

"'' as yourself"' that point.....








Lovelibertylady:heart:
 
Yes...like me

LibertyLady said:
why should i hang out with people who dont apriciate me...or already have this prejudgement of me...and just keep me there


you know i think i forgot that point of love youre brothers and sisters

"'' as yourself"' that point.....

Exactly. You're worth more than that. The moment you're not there, that's when they'll start appreciating you.
 
I think we all experienced this at one time or another. I too have this problem often. It so easy to say that you'll avoid people like that, but these type of people are all around you. Some of them are you own blood relatives. What I am learning to do is voice how I feel. Sometimes you just got to let them know.

If they still display the same behavior, then I stay away from them. I'll still say hello, but thats as far as it will go. I just keep it moving. Loving someone as yourself isn't so easy. exspecially when they don't initiate the same things as you do.


Don't every stop being you Sis! You are truly a beautiful soul!!!
 

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