Sister Nisa ... we try to put as few restrictions on the Membership as possible. Usually words get added because there are many who are offended by its use, or there are many who are trying to use it offensively. It would take much more than one or two instances, from one Member, based on one other Member's perception of what was written ... for a rule or restriction to be placed on the entire Family.
If you feel this Member has offended you personally, with what they said, maybe sharing that with them will be enough ... they may not know that what they wrote, could be perceived as you did.
Your opinion is valued, and we appreciate any and all of your suggestions. Please continue giving them to us.
Destee