Black Relationships : Background Check: Before getting seriously involved

[MsInterpret]

Depending on what kind of background check, my Sister.

If I want to get to know a Sister I'll just talk to her. By the time we are seriously involved I would have received answers to the most basic and important questions. And based on a how a person conducts his- or herself you'll know what you're dealing with. A felony will surface at some point... mos def (depending on what kind).

That being said, some of us think we know a person well after a few months of dating and casual sex... that's why these things go wrong. Take your time fam, could another person know YOU (your story, your habits, your character and your values) in and out after a mere 6 months just because they like you or are "in love with" you? Didn't think so.

Also, the very first step for me would be to ask the lovely Sister ('cause you know she'd be a nice piece of work if I'm dating her - wink wink!) for an STD test (no lie). You know 'it' might happen at sometime so it's best to know these things and to do that kind of check so you have proof.

The rest I can figure out through conversation, interrogation and observation. YA HEARD?!

One,

- Ikoro

Credit history and criminal history

 

[MsInterpret]

background check? how about a foreground check?

Bro. Jamesfromphilly,

Must you fight against the tide on questions?

The background may help reveal what may present itself in the foreground.

 

[medusanegrita]

EVERY? Sister Bootzey, if you don't mind me asking, how many men?

I was wondering the SAME thang.


I guess she needs even higher standards

 

[warriorprincess]

Credit history and criminal history

Oh these are goood! esp the credit history one. Most people do not know their credit history or that which is documented on them. Why is the information on how they calculate those credit scores such a secret anyway?

 

[MsInterpret]

Oh these are goood! esp the credit history one. Most people do not know their credit history or that which is documented on them. Why is the information on how they calculate those credit scores such a secret anyway?

Good question. I don't know either. Never figured it out. My child's father is a credit manager, maybe I should ask him...*thinking about it*...maybe not