My boyfriend's apartment is filthy! I admit, at times, my place can be slightly untidy, but his is disgusting. He makes excuses like he has such a hectic schedule, but when you have 7 layers of dirt on your carpet and ants in your bathroom which have now migrated to your bed, then "Houston, We have a problem!" I have tried to talk to him about this before and have even offered to help him clean it, but he is easily offended. Now, I anticipate this "weirdness" that will exist because if he has no interest in cleaning his place, then I have no interest in going to his place or even having him at mine... I mean, who wants foreign ants in their place. Yuck. Please Help.