Black Relationships : AT WHAT AGE DOES A BLACK MAN MATURE ENOUGH TO SETTLE DOWN AND DO RIGHT,HAVE KIDS?,

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  1. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I often wondered what type of woman or time in life would make a man say ok she's the one and I'm ready!
    Often times I see them mature around 35-40!
    My mother says they never mature or stop playing games.
    What makes them so afraid for so long through so many women and then finally decide he's tired and wants to commit or will he ever?
    Is it true they date many but only care for one?
    So why date more than one?
    I know alot of questions so take your time and be truthful:deal:
     
  2. jgyknowledge

    jgyknowledge Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I know that you didn't mean it to be..........

    ....but I find this question somewhat offensive.

    In my opinion a mature man should seriously try to find a wife during his mid to late twenties.
     
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    ibrahim Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Boys get married sometimes at the age of 15 where i come from. It depends on number of "farms" one has and the food you produce. It could also be that, you are the next heir to the throne and thus are required to get married at an early age. Or tradition could also make you get married at a very early age.
     
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    so, who equated maturity with a wife and kids?
     
  5. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    WHY IS THIS OFFENSIVE?
    I guess men are more sensitive then women!
    I've seen some threads and comments that have been offensive to sisters but they still respond!
     
  6. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    You are reading too deep into the question!
    If that's not what you desire than you need not answer the question!
     
  7. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    WOW at 15? What do they know about being a man or so responsible at a young age? Surely the older men teach them right?
     
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    G14:Classified Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    dont like this question will just leave this one alone this seems like a thread that will pit us against each other quick on the lines of maturity

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  9. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!
    I GUESS IF I WERE A MAN ASKING THIS ABOUT A WOMEN THIS ENTIRE THREAD WOULD BE FILLED WITH ANSWERS!
    I'M A SISTER ASKING A HONEST QUESTION AMONGST MY PEOPLE AND IF THAT'S A PROBLEM THEN I GUESS THERE IS NO NEED FOR ME TO EVER ASK ANYTHING!
     
  10. jgyknowledge

    jgyknowledge Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I find it somewhat offensive, because it infers that men are some sort of unruly creatures. That they go through life being with different women, just because they can. That we don't mature until we are older, middle aged men, because we're tired of the chase. Like I said, I don't think this was your intent, but as a somewhat intelligent man.....this is what I read in your question. Surely you can see some of my sentiments when asked a question in such a manner?

    If someone deems a question or attitude offensive they should speak their mind, otherwise the other party will never know.

    In your opinion what is a mature man?






     
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