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I think what is more meaningful is if the father and possible future son-in-law take time to actually get to know each other first. I am grateful that I got to know my wife's father before he passed away from lung cancer. I feel he was able to move on in peace when he told me he felt she made a very good choice in a husband. I know I would personally like to have that same sort of feeling of peace towards my daughter's future husband. I hope and pray that she chooses wisely, and that she remembers the lessons I have taught her on how to judge a person's character. A young man asking me for my daughter's hand in marriage would be one small positive indicator into the type of character her suitor possess.
I think what is more meaningful is if the father and possible future son-in-law take time to actually get to know each other first. I am grateful that I got to know my wife's father before he passed away from lung cancer. I feel he was able to move on in peace when he told me he felt she made a very good choice in a husband. I know I would personally like to have that same sort of feeling of peace towards my daughter's future husband. I hope and pray that she chooses wisely, and that she remembers the lessons I have taught her on how to judge a person's character. A young man asking me for my daughter's hand in marriage would be one small positive indicator into the type of character her suitor possess.
I agree. You should establish a relationship first, if possible. But still, go that extra step. My Dad was in the hospital when my beau made his declaration. The man who understands the unique dynamic between a Father and daughter, will earn mad cool points with this easily accomplished task... not just with Dad, but also with his lady.
I was very proud that day. I thought the gesture was courageous, thoughtful, respectful, and romantic.