And she gave it back to me, tit for tat:
What you quoted as her "tit for tat" ... isn't that at all ... in my opinion.
She said : I suggest you take your own advice in terms of learning to read with comprehension.
And no where in there is she calling you trifling or anything else.
Maybe i need to see more, but as i've said before, pointing out someone else's possible wrongdoing, is no defense to yours. Not at this point in the process. If you are truly offended by what she or another says, report it, before you are warned ... or else i'm thinking it wasn't worthy of reporting before you got in trouble, only after ... and i'm gonna go with your actions before (that it obviously didn't bother you that much), not after.