I am reading a book where marriages are arranged. The men are issued wives by the government. That's crazy but it raised the question which would most people prefer. The arranged marriage that guaranteed that you'd have a mate even if you didn't fall in love with them or even like them. Or going out there hoping you might fall in love with someone who by some miraculous chance is also in love with you? What would you prefer: 1. having your life partner, if not picked from birth, then at least set up by a parent or aunt or 2. spending years kissing frogs hoping one of them will turn back into a handsome prince/princess?