Black Relationships : Around what age do women start to become less desirable?

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  1. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I've heard 39, 46, 50, 35, 40, 60, and even 28. In my honest opinion I think women can have a timeless beauty depending on how they carry themselves. If you take care of your body and mind, you can be desirable till the day you die. However, if you drink, smoke, don't take care of your body, and every other word that comes out of your mouth is vulgar, then well.....you're probably not going to be wanted by many. I don't know, I think beauty and desire depends on who is looking.

    Any thoughts?
     
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    BWHAHAAAA!! :lol: 28 is when you become less desirable?? Then I guess my expiration date is now.

    I know that this question is mostly directed to men....Buuuut....

    I know most men find older women to be more attractive than younger women...But I think that as a man gets older this age preference gets younger....

    And if the man has any good sense at all, age would only be a small factor, her maturity and mindset would mean much more.
     
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    To me age only become a factor when they have a huge gap between them and or
    under age , A woman only become less desirable when she allow her worth to be
    misused / abused because she holds a beauty that's beyond compare , yes women
    sometime slip but deep within she holding it down just like she did in her 20's
    I've seen some very desirable women well in there mid 60's and some as young as 21

    I agree it's mainly how she carry her self and what she allow of her self
    I think it's just a faze guys use just to dip / cheat and test the water......

    women should never fear or question her beauty & worth because what's not seen
    is often the true treasure , her abilities/ heart and how well she carry self often
    say she is desirable , many times a woman is judge by her character which is the
    aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature as a person how she
    carry her self is characteristic on her moral or ethical quality which is her representation
    of Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring,smile and love.

    This how i see a woman no matter age if she lack this then she is undesirable
     
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    Women are always desirable.

    I've seen women in their 60s looking good.

    Appearances are okay, but it is also about the spirit of the woman and the vibe you receive and give to her.
     
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    peace

    beauty:

    It's still in the 'eye' of the beholder..................
     
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    i like your vibe ... :love:

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    :D

    Clearly feminine energy is a powerful force.

    It is expressed, in part, through women. How they look, think, act, believe, feel, move, etc.

    Resonate. Give and take. Ebb and flow. Fluctuation.
     
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    wait ... is this phone sex ... ??? ... oh gosh ... hello ... hello ?? ... operator ... i need this call! ... :love:

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    LOL.

    Just some of what I have learned.... sometimes the hard way :).
     
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    i'm finna stop rite here and now ... before i get prison time ... mess'n with such a young man! ... :)

    Love You Brother Shikamaru! :kiss:

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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