Black Relationships : Are you

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  1. Smurfette

    Smurfette Member MEMBER

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    Are you attracted to females/males who smoke? Would you start a relationship with a female/male who smokes? How do you feel about that?
     
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    no, they stink
     
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    Hell no. Not cigarettes. A little ganja here and there is ok...but no cigarettes. Makes teeth, breathe and clothes nasty. :lol:
     
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    I do not like the smell. Can't even imagine getting my lips all moist just to kiss someone who's mouth smells like an ashtray.

    I don't care how attracted I am to a man who smokes, he could never be anything more than a friend.
     
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    Okay I understand where all of you are comming from, but the reason I asked that question is because I see so many people smoking cigarettes left to right. I wonder what their spouses have to say about that. Also so far the ratio is 3:0 all of you said you wouldn't want your mate, or shall I say you would not date an opposite who smokes, but I see this everyday a man smoking a cigarette and females lined up to date them. Whats up with that I have heard a lot of men say that they dont want a female who smokes. Is it a double standard is it alright for a man to smoke and not a female?
     
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    I have to go with the majority...I find cigarette smoke quite nasty! :puke2:
     
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    for some reason, some females like to get with losers.
    if you are female maybe you can explain it.
    i have had females tell me how nasty their man was.
    i always ask, if he was that nasty, why was he up in your bushes?
    i know i would never go there.
    i don't do stank. :nono:
     
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    Absolutely NOT! I don't find anything attractive, cool or cute about that. It is a nasty habit in my eyes. One of my non-negotiables for dating. I can be friends with someone who smokes, but never date them