Black Relationships : Are You Single, Married, Looking ... ?

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  1. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    Hello Family,

    Sister Nita Mae asked me to ask yall this question, 'cause she is shy and was wundr'n ... :) ... but uhhh ... are you single, married, looking, involved, hungry, starving, or however you'd describe your current intimate relationship experience.

    I don't know if Nita is look'n or what ... but anyway ... i've asked the question for her ... and will be the first to respond.

    I am single, divorced, and currently have me and all my chiren ... and our u-hauls loaded wit all our stuff ... ready and waiting for the first invitation from a non-serial killer type ... :wink:

    :heart:

    Destee
     
  2. MANASIAC

    MANASIAC Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I am single and currently looking only to get myself right before I try to get somone else.

    Too much boo boo in your life only helps you to become boo boo, so I figure that if I get right, I will find someone who is right.

    If someone cool comes along, I am down for whateva however.
     
  3. MrBlak

    MrBlak Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Single and looking. I had just attempted to have a relationship with a woman I met online but it was long distance and other factors came in so we are just good friends now. I want something serious soon but got no prospects so I keep my eyes open around the city.
     
  4. Nita

    Nita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Ummmmm...see...How I get all in Destee scandle...smh...lolol

    Well, I was seeing a guy up until last night, his jobs and school and church leaves no time for me...so I'm back on the market....The first 50 brothers will get a 10% discount too...lolol
     
  5. MzBlkAngel

    MzBlkAngel Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    QQ..yall krazie

    QQ..Nita....Smh....:lol:


    i am not on the market....not searchin, yearnin, hungry, or starvin
    content and happy..
    well some days that is.... :lol: other days i am at peace
     
  6. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I've never been married, but I am single and have been for 8 years. My last relationship ended after 5 years when my daughter was 10 years old, and I didn't think it was fit to parade a bunch of men around her when I knew deep down I was in no mood for a real relationship. So for the most part I dated away from the house but only casually.

    The last year and a half I've discovered the type of man I truly see myself settling down with...and have only recently encountered a few who fit that role. It's been nice taking my time to get to know them, to open up and expose myself to them in a new way... to be mentally intimate without sex.

    I'm sure soon things will change for me and the time couldn't be more perfect now that my daughter is starting her senior year of high school.

    I have never really looked for a relationship...and dont ever plan to.
     
  7. kente417mojo

    kente417mojo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm single and not looking. I don't whore-around but I have women that I "see" casually. I think I'm ready for a relationship but I'm pretty picky when it comes to women. Not in the superficial shallow way, but I like women who are very very down to earth, genuinely sweet, beautiful inside and outside and honest. I don't know that many women like that so that's why I'm single. It's cool though. I have all the time in the world. :look: :shades:
     
  8. Lucky

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    involved and content :tongue:
     
  9. jazzymoonchild

    jazzymoonchild Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm single, been divorced for many years now. I have dated here and there, but take myself "off the market" so to speak when I feel my patience running thin. I have some things that I am taking care of within myself, concentrating on being the best "me" possible. My King will find me.
     
  10. Nita

    Nita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Jazzy

    I hear you...I too am waiting on my King to find me, and if he's reading this thread, hit me on my yahoo IM....lolol....smh :jumping: :lol:
     
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