Black Relationships : Are you paying attention in your relationship?!

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by luvmyppl, Mar 24, 2007.

  1. luvmyppl

    luvmyppl Member MEMBER

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    I was dating a guy, or at least I thought I was, that didn't seem to pay me enough attention. Is it wrong that I broke off the relationship since he didn't give me the attention that I feel I need. I don't ask for too much. I understood he had a demanding work schedule and he did a lot of activities outside of work, i.e. karate, basketball, poetry slams, etc. But I deserve more than one call a week. I didn't expect him to call or see me every day but he only called once a week. I know I couldn't possibly be selfish but was I wrong for breaking it completely off? :garbage:
     
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    LUVMYPPL:

    I don't think you were wrong, but it sounds like to me he was dating other people in addition to yourself.
     
  3. Daniel Pennant

    Daniel Pennant New Member MEMBER

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    He is dating others ?

    LUVMYPPL:

    It sounds he is dating others. Why not talk to him directly? You just want more attention , maybe 3-5 calls each week or 2-3 meet each week. He is making you feel he is ignoring you.

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    :wave:Welcome Daniel Pennant!:wave:

    It's always a pleasure to read new members. :couple:
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  5. luvmyppl

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    I agree...

    Well I figured that afterwards, the day I broke it off he told me I would be replaced by the end of the day. And I was, he went on a date that same night. Oh well, I'm glad that relationship was short lived.

    Anybody looking for a thick sistah that can cook??? :hearts3: :cook:
     
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