Why is it that when most women are in public (especially with their friends) they are so unapproachable(if thats a word..lol)? What do I mean by unapproachable?? When a RESPECTFUL man attempts to make some connection...asking a woman out, paying a compliment, making conversation etc. there is a wall iimmediately. As if we are trying to take your first born, we get serious negative vibes. And sometimes we get down right dissed with indignant, COMPLETELY UNWARRENTED, intentionally hurtful replies that some women seem to gain some satifsfaction from and will even go so far as to brag to their friends how they crushed this man's advance and did damage to his self-esteem in the process. Women complain often about not being able to find a good man...well maybe the problem is ..many women won't let a good man find them.