Just a parent
What is the value of adding the word 'single' in front of the word parent, and what does it actually mean? I can understand a parent being single and claiming singledom
Single with children..
But to say you are a single parent - what are you trying to convey, why, and to whom?
I've seen this term too often. But - A father who sees his kids on the weekends - or does the odd appointment/school run is co-parenting. A father who provides child support is a co-parent. A grandparent who takes care of the kids 6 day a week while the mother/father works is parenting too. A live in partner/sibling/aunt is a parent too, even if only temporary
The term 'single parent' carried associations that should not always apply. The 'parental type' influences on the childs life come from many sources - yet because the bio mom and dad are not together, we stamp 'single parent' on it. For whose benefit is that?
I know that there are parents who have
nobody to assist them - but most I know fill the the categories above (and some I havent mentioned)