I've been reading tons of writings lately with each gender pointing blame at the opposite sex as to why our relationships don't last. It seems that we got a lot of blame game going around, but not much opening up as to the real causes of problems within our relationships. We talk about why we divorce, why there are single-parent homes, why there are more relationships than marriages, etc. However, I don't see many articles or polls about what our true expectations, desires, hopes or dreams are. I realize that I cannot expect to hope that this discussion can cause a widespread end to all the fingerpointing, but I hope that for once, we can tell the truth here, taking accountability for what we REALLY want instead of putting blame out there. So, ONCE AND FOR ALL, what do YOU, fellow black men and women, really want to happen in an intimate relationship with the opposite sex and why?