Black People : Are there any celibate men here?

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  1. Impressive

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    Are there any celibate men that are members on this site? I don't mean celibate today and not tomorrow. I want to know are there any male members waiting until marriage to have sex?
     
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    Very Good Question Sister.....I await the response as well. :)
     
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    My cousin is celibate. He calls it a re dedication to his faith. I advised him against it because he is searching for a wife and sex is a big part of a marriage whether people want to admit it or not. But, I is admirable that he has the self control to go without sex for an extended period of time. If he exhibited as much self control when dealing with his finances he would be in a much better situation...but that is a different topic.

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  4. Khasm13

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    my last year and a half in college i was celibate....
    not from choice but from taking a full load and working full time....
    i just didn't have the time for it....
    but imho...trying to remain celibate until marriage is foolish
    if you consider physical fulfillment as part of a happy marriage....


    tru story...at my 10 year class reunion i met a lady i used to kick it with back in the day...we started dating and about a month into the dating i tried to press up....she was like naw *****...i'm waiting to get married b4 all of that...my faith won't allow me too deviate...so i proceeded to move on from there....
    6 months later she was married...i guess some other dude fell for it....a year after that she was divorced with a little daughter....

    a brother like me has to squeeze the charmin b4 i buy....lol

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    Putney Swope Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    i don't know cause from what I hear

    their sex life ends when they do get married
     
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    A007 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    LOL

    NOT TRUE!! Trust me on this one. But, it will if both parties are celibate and after the marriage find out that they are not sexually compatible. :court:
     
  7. Impressive

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    God would not have it as a commandment if it were impossible to do.
     
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    i never said it was impossible...imho it's just not practical....

    i got a question for u....were adam and eve married on their first day together?

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  9. Impressive

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    You know the answer to that question! No, they were not and things did not go right for them because they did not follow God's commandments. Don't get me wrong I am not trying to say that everything will go perfect just because you wait for marriage but, it sure soes help.
     
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    how does it help?
    i'm just trying to get the other side of this argument cause i really don't see it....

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