Dear Sister Destee, I'm interracially married (my husband is white). In view of your response to a recent poster who posted on the topic of interracial relationships in which you pointed out that IRs are not promoted here, I would like to know whether people like me are welcome here? If so, how you would suggest I handle my IR situation here because it's bound to come up. I would not want anyone to think I'm promoting anything, but neither is my relationship a secret. If not, I will promptly leave. I do understand the sentiments of many posters to the site about IRs. I understand how they feel because for many years, I felt the same way. I have since come to realize that my marriage is neither a sin, shame, nor a crime. Your site is wonderful, has awesome potential, and I have ideas to share (I am an activist), however, if you can foresee that my presence would be disruptive here, I will promptly leave. Please let me know.