Though I agree, we (Black men) have a responsibility in who we pursue or give our attention to, with that said, let me say this…
I don’t think this is just about hard working men not being noticed, or is it about hardworking men being womanless…this is really about what was actually stated or implied in the first post of this thread and that is that, “Black women no longer have an healthy appreciation for hardworking men!” Women always choose in the end, this is nature!
This is “more” of a lost to these particular Black women, than it is a lost to hardworking Black men, though we all loose in the end when this type of “weak thinking” becomes too pervasive; further more, unfortunately their choices will define the holistic development of the next generation of Black children (for better or for worse).
Black women have to have SOME responsibility for the choices they make and how the next generation of our Black children/nation will develop spiritually, psychologically, and physically. We know the Black woman is the soul of creation; her womb is the gate to the garden, the hand that rocks the cradle of God, and the door to the temples of heaven.
Progressively thinking and consciously aware Black people put all of the importance in the world on how Black women divinely think, but when its time to observe how responsible is her thinking, we give her a way out by once again blaming Black men for her shortcomings, or it's just simply the Black man's fault if her thinking is becoming more backwards in this day and time. I think that’s really an insult to progressive Black women who get it right, and I also believe that, not being honest with our Sisters is like letting them drown without throwing them a rope!
Peace