I have often wondered why boys seemed to have an aversion to their mothers remarrying. I have heard of mothers who are torn between remarrying and having their children ..particularly boys angry at them. I found out recently that my three sons believe that I should remain a divorced woman. One told me why get married again, another man in your life will cause you stress Another one said, I am going to get you hooked up with my dad again. The youngest said, No man will ever be able to live at this house Well I just told them politely ...if you all want me to be friends with ya'all JUST KEEP OUT OF MY BUSINESS . None of you had an imput in my marrying your dad, so you all will have none in ANY one I marry...they laughed..but I know that deep down they want me to remain without a man. Boys seem to hate the idea that another man and not their father is intimate with their mother....I won't promise them anything, but IF the right man comes along, they can go fly a kite, or bark at the moon, this woman will not be sleeping no more girl sleep..