Lets say you met someone in a poetry room online. You all conversate back and forth, share poems, blah, blah, blah. You never meet this person at all physically. I mean no pictures sent via e-mail or otherwise. You just know that this person is the bomb,from the conversations and poetry shared. After about lets say 4 months or so you all decide that you want to know what one another look like. You exchange pictures. One of you is dissappointed. Why? Do we as a people put too much presure on one another to look a certain way? Is that egged on by models, magazine covers, songs etc., etc. Personally I don't care. Never have, never will. "It's not about the package, but the contents within". You can have the most fly brotha or sista, but then they have nothing to say. Help me out yall. Let a sista know what's up.