Ok this is a little less explicit than my last post but here goes; I am involved with a female who truly adores me, but I dont like her anymore. In fact I cant stand her anymore-we have NO chemistry what so ever. Why am I still with her? It's kind of out of pity... she is a very lonely- emotionaly needy person. I have the sense that she was deeply sad about things in her life so used me to compensate. I dont want to be unhappy- BUT im so scared of how it might affect her if I were to look elsewhere. I've never been good at breaking up with girls...lol any suggestions?