Am I to blame?

Discussion in 'Black Teenagers - Teenz Exprezzed!' started by miss-no-love, Apr 14, 2005.

  1. miss-no-love

    miss-no-love Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    What up yall, ok my cousin had told me that she's pregnant and I fee that she is not ready to have a baby. She's only 16 and she dropped out of school and her babyfather aint on the right track either. Well, she had told me to not to say anything and I told her I wouldn't. Her other cousin is in my class and i was writing baby nameson a sheet of a papper and her other cousin had seen it, I didn't know that he was behind me. He said that he wasn't going to tell nobody, he's going to let her tell people when she want to. The thing is that she's mad at me because she think I told her cousin that she was pregnant but I didn't she think I'm to blame, she said l shouldnt been writhing down baby names I think that she's over reacting. Do yall think I'm to blame. 1luv


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  2. plainrhythm

    plainrhythm Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    hey miss-no-love,

    nah i don't think you are to blame... what i want to know is why you didn't say anything in the first place?! i understand that in her position, she won't want anyone to know about it but maybe you should've spoken to someone you trust perhaps? an older person of course... and in the end you do have the risk of your cousin not talking to you again, but also you know that you were responsible..
    (i hate it when i talk like this)

    well, just talk to her!!!!

    good luck!
    and it's NOT YOUR FAULT! :roll:

    much love,
    plain.
     
  3. Lloyd

    Lloyd Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Don't think so

    It's just a misunderstanding between you and your cousin.Try to make her know about and if she doesn't accept,don't worry about!It can happen to everybody to make mistakes because we are human!
     
  4. Sodwn2earth

    Sodwn2earth Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    No, it's not your fault, and I don't think it was really fair for her to put you in such an uncomfortable position.
     
  5. tcr1223

    tcr1223 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    naw it aint your fault jus a misunderstanding i think she still a lil emotional and stuff over that fact that she is pregnant so maybe thats y she over-reactted
     
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