See this is part of your problem. Why should I learn about Sango when I am Shango. I told you my Earth day is his feast day. Can you tell me what calendar date I'm talking about without looking it up on the internet?
But that's okay if you don't get the point. I'm not the one here asking if I am a king or not on a website where the Creatir is a Queen.
If you really know Orisa then you know that like the Orisa we each have both masculine and feminine traits, energy, etc. so, again, the problem we face is one of balance.
Question: did/does Oyo have more than one mate?
To argue for polygamy and against polyandry in the mortal realm makes no sense if both exist in the immortal, spiritual realm.
Against, everything comes down to lack of balance and right order (Maat).mortals no longer have the capacity to restore these. Even as Shango you do not rule over Oshun, Oyo and Yemaja.
http://destee.com/index.php?threads/irunmole-yoruba-primordials.40446/