Isn't it interesting how nature made us, or should I say the Creator, Yes I think I will say the Creator, He has made us, She has made us, there you like that? The Creator made us female and male, mothers are sweet, soft, nurturing and kind. And Fathers are strong, stern, self sacrificing and encouraging but where goes the love for fathers? Am I not King anymore, made into a slave by Europeans, stripped of my manhood, my right to be king of my own house, my woman wants to liberate yourself from me and my children hate me? Does the African woman want weak men now, they want not the alpha strong male but the new metrosexual beta male who doesn't talk back to a woman? How is this madness to proceed, every female in all our ancient cultures looked up to the male, he was the protector, the provider and peacemaker. Now women are screaming for a man who they want as equal, how so? If every girl growing up wants the protection, provision and peacemaking of the Father what need she have of a man who is none of these? What good is it to be a man and not fulfill the role of a man? What do women teach their sons that they aren't to be the men of their households? What mother would scar her child by making him into such a man women wouldn't like? Women want strong male, aggressive and challenge conquers, men who speak and are heard, men who have solutions to problems that confront food, shelter, clothing and protection. I don't know of any culture where this metrosexual male exists but only the ones where people are held slaves and the conquer claims the women of the conquered male as spoils. So what are you African women spoiled treasure, or are you my woman, the African King? If you are my woman and you are my mother, my sister then you wouldn't mind me being a polygamist. This whole outrage with polygamy is sickening, when have African women not wanted a Sango male? Do you think its right as a single woman that you get the only alpha male out of a group of ten men? You don't think other women want them an alpha male? Of' course they do, women sleep with married men all the time because they want the male another woman found worthy enough to marry. Unworthy men are single and they are single in African culture and countries. Women only want alpha males, men who are financially able to provide for them. By living in a Western nation with safety nets like Welfare, Public Housing, Foods tamps and W.I.C women in the West are unlike those sisters over in Africa, who value men who can provide and ignore those who can't. Polygamy isn't widespread only men who can afford to have extra wives have them, men with land, livestock and wealth. So think carefully how would you transition back to Africa, when you hate the idea of male control. Africa has men in control and women there love their men to be strong. The idea of a weak man is a product of slavery, no society on earth wants their men to be weak because that leaves the nation vulnerable to attack. Hyenas are ruled by the females and they are scavengers, Lion are ruled by males and Lions eat first in the jungle. Show me a society where the men are weak and I'll show you a people still being ruled over by another group. Kings are to be strong like Sango, like David and men are to be strong like kings and their women should love them to be. So am I not King?