Alpha Male

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  1. Destee

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    Hello Family,

    I had a contractor (white male) here looking at the damage to my home from Katrina, assessing how much it would cost to correct things. As he was walking around the house on the outside, my dog was barking, going krazee that this stranger was so close to our property.

    My dog is fenced, in the backyard. The contractor didn't go inside the fence, but instead, was all outside of it.

    The closer he got to the back, the more ferocious my dog became.

    The contractor said he is an "Alpha Male," based on the way he was carrying on. He said that if i put my dog in with some other dogs, the chances are great that he'd get the other dogs to submit to him. He said that he wasn't worried about all the growling, snapping, and foaming at the mouth my dog was doing, as he had raised many dogs and was quite comfortable around them.

    He was talking to my dog, letting the dog know that he wasn't afraid, and that he wasn't finna run him off. He even went as far as to say ... and i quote ... "You don't scare me, i'll show you who the Alpha Male is, i'll come inside that fence and hump you!" :eeek:

    That's what he said yall !!! He told my dog that he would come in there and hump him, to let him know he was superior to him!!?? I'm thinking to myself, yeah, you go in that fence, and you're gonna get ate!

    Hmmmm ...

    I've never heard a man say that!

    Anyway ... it got me thinking about this Alpha Male stuff.

    Brothers ... does this Alpha Male stuff apply to men?

    Are you an Alpha Male?

    How do you know an Alpha Male when you see one?

    :heart:

    Destee
     
  2. jamesfrmphilly

    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    well, i ain't never humped no dogs...........

    other than that, i fit the profile.
     
  3. Destee

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    What is the profile Brother James?

    What makes an Alpha Male an Alpha Male?

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    Maybe your dog is like me, we just don't like white males :lol:
     
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    leadership ability.
     
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    Alpha Males

    Alpha types are usually the more aggressive
     
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    does this apply to men?..............yes in some men

    are you an Alpha male?.............it all depend on what , who and where but most part NO i'm not but can be when i want to be

    all that hump stuff was his own thang !

    How do you know an Alpha Male when you see one?.......

    By his strong aggressiveness , willing to tame as number one no matter what
    or who, and or when you see a positively change in action to be first in control.

    However this white guy feel he's in control and superior to anything and will
    stand to prove he is number one this how they look at us as people
    the hump thing is a personal thing he got .....whewwwwwwww!!!
    i tell you they freaky as all out doors don't put it pass him that he won't
    to prove he stronger and in control as man .



    How
     
  8. Akilah

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    SMH...He done lost his dawg gone mind !!!

    Destee :heart:

    I'm sorry...I Know I shouldn't be
    intruding in this thread since the
    question was posed to our brutha
    Kings, but you just done provided
    me with the best laugh I had alllllll
    day...whewwww... talkin' bout he
    gonna hump the poor dog... lawd !
    I know your dog was lookin' at him
    like "Grrrrr...BRING IT !!!"

    Thanks, I needed that...

    Akilah :D
     
  9. queentswana

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    That's exactly what it's about...leadership ability in all and every area, I use to always hear keita say that to one of the dogs, his statement to then was always this: I'm the only alpha dog here.
     
  10. bigtown

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    You should have told him he could hump him only if he open mouth kissed him first.
     
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