Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by cocobutterskyn, Nov 12, 2008.
What are your thoughts on men filing for alimony?
give it up
i want my money!
Equal rights ... is what comes to mind and play on this and why not ?
Men been victims between marriage and devoices.
When I read those words, my first thought was,
sounds like some a pimp would say
Sir. Richness, I feel you.
If a man has full custody of the children and has lesser means, then by all means, file
but when he’s doing alright, financially and has partial custody
of the children I don’t feel he should. But that's just my sense of it
Thanks for engaging James and Rich... I appreciate it, BIGTIME!
and just how is it that you know? huh?
i used to be bad but now i am good....
Now on the alimony tip I got this to say; She can keep her money cause the only thing that lives off of somebody else's a-- is a leech and a tick and they're both blood suckers...and just like I don't want none from her she ain't gettin none from me unless she's blind or cripple.
Men should get alimony and more for all the stuff they have to put up with
If there are children involved and the care of those children will make it hard for the primary care giver to work then yes. If both parties are equally eligible for work then it's okay. That's the politically correct answer.
I know this will open a can of worms but..... there is something unmanly and punk-like about a man requesting alimony.
i'll be your punk if you just give me my money......
I believe that if you can sustain your life without alimony from your ex then you should not ask for it. I got a divorce and my ex husband asked for everything from and if I didnt give it to him he wanted alimony. Doing things like that never get you anywhere. If you have children if you can not sustain the life style the two of you had when ou were together, then you should get alimony.
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