- Jan 6, 2003
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Okay.
I have a delimma.
I have a friend. Let's call her A. A is Married to B.
I have another friend. Let's call her C.
I have known A since I was in second grade. A is pretty and dark skinned.
I have known C a few years. C is pretty and light skinned.
They are some of my best friends.
Okay -- so. B has a thing for light skinned women. He told A that before they got married. He also told her that they probably shouldn't get married because of that. But then again, he didn't want nobody else to have her, right?
So he married her.
Then they met C at my house. A caught B staring at C's behind. They had an argument and he said it would never happen again.
Due to a business deal that happened between them as a couple and C (who is her own business), they all contact each other via email and telephone.
B started sending C inappropriate emails -- not really flirting or saying "I wanna lay with you" or whatever. But just telling her too much about he and A's relationship. C told me; I told her to tell him she wasn't comfortable with that. He got scared and stopped emailing.
I called A and told her. Lucky for HIM, he'd told her just before I did.
Now, because we were out at a function together this past weekend, the inappropriate emails have begun again.
He wants to know why she didn't speak to him at the function. He tells her that was a nice blouse she had on (she has large bosooms). She doesn't reply, but she tells me.
My problem is this -- I feel VERY torn. C tells me all of this! Am I supposed to keep it from A this time? Since it did NOTHING the first time (She said real cocky like "I know about it. He just told me." I said "...And you're okay with this?" She said "...No..." but you know, they still together so nothing came of it)?
Should I keep my mouth shut? I love them both but if push comes to shove A will stomp a mud hole in C.
I don't want that. I don't feel that this is 100% C's fault. She's young, low self esteem, she likes the attention. I BELIEVE (I don't KNOW) she won't sleep with him or something.
Help me out. What should I, as a friend to either or both girls do?
Appreciate your honest opinion...
I have a delimma.
I have a friend. Let's call her A. A is Married to B.
I have another friend. Let's call her C.
I have known A since I was in second grade. A is pretty and dark skinned.
I have known C a few years. C is pretty and light skinned.
They are some of my best friends.
Okay -- so. B has a thing for light skinned women. He told A that before they got married. He also told her that they probably shouldn't get married because of that. But then again, he didn't want nobody else to have her, right?
So he married her.
Then they met C at my house. A caught B staring at C's behind. They had an argument and he said it would never happen again.
Due to a business deal that happened between them as a couple and C (who is her own business), they all contact each other via email and telephone.
B started sending C inappropriate emails -- not really flirting or saying "I wanna lay with you" or whatever. But just telling her too much about he and A's relationship. C told me; I told her to tell him she wasn't comfortable with that. He got scared and stopped emailing.
I called A and told her. Lucky for HIM, he'd told her just before I did.
Now, because we were out at a function together this past weekend, the inappropriate emails have begun again.
He wants to know why she didn't speak to him at the function. He tells her that was a nice blouse she had on (she has large bosooms). She doesn't reply, but she tells me.
My problem is this -- I feel VERY torn. C tells me all of this! Am I supposed to keep it from A this time? Since it did NOTHING the first time (She said real cocky like "I know about it. He just told me." I said "...And you're okay with this?" She said "...No..." but you know, they still together so nothing came of it)?
Should I keep my mouth shut? I love them both but if push comes to shove A will stomp a mud hole in C.
I don't want that. I don't feel that this is 100% C's fault. She's young, low self esteem, she likes the attention. I BELIEVE (I don't KNOW) she won't sleep with him or something.
Help me out. What should I, as a friend to either or both girls do?
Appreciate your honest opinion...