Give your soul and your body some time to heal before having sex again.
When a woman has sex, she is giving up a lot. And even with protection, there is the risk of pregnancy and STDs.
Focus on finding yourself. Even if he dumped you... (which is why I suspect many female divorcees want to find love so quickly).
When the divorce is completely over, go on and have your fun. However, keep in mind that if you have kids, you need to find a man that is going to be responsible.
Don't give up sex so easily...
If you have to do it, give yourself to a "throwaway" partner... the "playa" that may not want you anyway. But with the man after that (if he commits to a relationship), try to hold yourself. DO NOT GO TO THE PLAYA AGAIN.
Because men refuse to commit, this is the pattern women must follow if they are to find a man to marry (yet still satisfy their OWN physical urges).
So, the playa that looks pathetic and says "I want sex..." give it to him without expecting commitment.
But the man that holds doors open for you, carries your bags for you, etc.... unfortunately, that's the man YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX WITH.
Depending on your beliefs, you may not want to give him anything until your wedding night.
It's a crass strategy, but because good men don't like bad girls, it's one that has to be done.