The truth is the truth, and men today ain't about nor are all that interested in marriage, etc. It's about hitting it, and moving on, etc. It's hard to meet a black woman today that doesn't have a child or children and have been In multiple relationships, etc. Which often includes being married several times or more, etc. Most are having to raise their children alone or by multiple stepfathers, etc. Hell, with all these children by so many different fathers creates a lot of different families, aka: kinfolk, etc. While it's true that many a black man does very little if that, for his biological children, most often they brag of the fact that they have fathered so many children by as many baby mama's etc., this was back then yesterday, and is still happening today, etc. When you've met a young, lets say 19-24 year old single on public services, etc., black woman with (4-5) kids you will understand what I am saying, etc. It's about kids having kids, etc. Yet it's also true that many women do succeed raising kids that finish high school, go off to college, etc. many go into the military, etc. Yes, these black women are to be applauded, etc. What a great job, etc. But the issue still remains, as young women are getting played and screwed, by these young black men that have no intentions of marriage nor remaining with them, etc. Let the truth be told!