Black Relationships : Abusive Relationships

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  1. _NortheastGroover_

    _NortheastGroover_ Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    You after the texas db thread and the story about ray rice, all I been hearing is what women to do men and what men do to women. So I'm going to take a new approach and say...

    What about the women who like abusive relationships??? I know a few girla who like men who take control and "discipline" them and show "strength" that they not "weak"????

    Are those men wrong for giving them what they want (or believe they need)?
     
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    theres quite a bit of difference between liking a dominant male and liking an abusive male - were pretty much programmed by evolution to seek the male who will produce the strongest healthiest children and who will then be able to protect them - many women like more dominant males - some are even into the whole bdsm thing - i have friends who are into that - but again theres a whole heap of difference between getting some sexual arousal out of bein spanked with a paddle and having your head stomped on - the only women who actually like being injured are ones who have been mentally damaged in some way
     
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    The so called slave master use to make the strongest healthiest male mate with other women to produce strong offspring, so maybe its natural maybe it isn't...

    Some women don't see the difference between being dominant and being abusive, and whether they are mentally damaged or not doesn't change the fact that its what they like...

    Matter of fact not all women who like that are mentally damaged...
     
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    id definitly need to see a psych evaluation of anyone that likes getting injured before i believed they werent sufferin from some kind of mental illness
     
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    There are different extremes to abuse, it doesn't have to mean being beaten to a pulp, abuse can be simply pushing someone to the ground...

    Then theres verbal abuse too, one of my old coworkers deal with a man who constantly degrades her verbally
     
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    obviously the less damaging the abuse the more likely people will put up with it - there are sure some strange things that go on out there though - i even know there are women who actually get turned on by bein racially abused by white guys
     
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    My friend's girl is a stripper (both of them are girls, they're lesbians) at a predominantly white male club and she makes big money on the side as a dominatrix, she was telling us all freaky, and sick, ways they like to be beaten and tortured/dominated by her...

    And its a porn website where these white girls are calling black dudes n****** lol..

    They say America is the devil's playground lol
     
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    Yeah the men are wrong. No shh. Your behavior should be based on your moral compass. To be persuaded into wrongdoing is wrong, no doubt.
     
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    I blame the men the first time but if he backhand her for not doing something and she stay around I can't blame him no more.
     
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    These unnatural behaviors originate with the white race and slavery. The Black race have been programmed into a foreign culture that is destroying us. The sooner we face this and seek the healing and purification that comes from pursuing our African ancestors guidance, healing and knowledge, we will only become MORE sick, MORE depraved and eventually extinct.
     
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