- Aug 3, 2014
Frank, this is something you will never understand, most likely, imo.
And in my opinion I understand it more than you would believe or want to accept
The sanctity of a woman's body cannot be put into words for you.
I hold the belief that all human beings bodies should be held in Sanctity, The Woman the man and the unborn child...I make exception there.
You'll just have to take my word on this.
Hey I do..I do believe that you honestly and sincerely believe that your opinion is correct.
I know many women who share your opinion.....it is the accepted opinion of the majority of our society today.
Having a rapist's child inside of me would indeed make me feel sick and ashamed among a lot of other dreadful things.
Okay here is the point and I am not trying to be frivolous or insensitive....just realistic.
Psychology is real - we make it so by self full filling prophecy.
They Issue is for you would be in my opinion Psychological and Moral....NOT BIOLOGICAL
1. That is your opinion, unless you have had a rapist child in you....it remains an opinion. Albeit very likely accurate in terms of predisposition, mindset and expectations.
2. Most women do feel sick when the are caring - nausea.
3. Women who were expected to inseminated with Anonymous donor or their husband sperm but instead recieve the Doctor's sperm did not reported any significant difference in pregnancy in and off itself.
Sitting I would be outrage at the rapist for what he has done.....But if she ask me what to do with the child I would say keep it. There of course would be some resentment, but I think eventually I would grow to love that child. Bearing in mind I grew up in a blended family - My mother and father both brought children* from previous relationship into their marriage.Maybe you could identify with how YOU would feel if YOUR WIFE were pregnant and carrying a child from a man who had raped her. Would you love the child like he was your own? Even when he looked, spoke, and acted, like the rapist?
I cannot speak for my wife in such a situation but she has always been against Abortion.
In Jamaica where I grew up we have a thing we called "Jacket" read up on it. It is probable prevalent in America too
*Never like to share personal information on these boards becausse there is always a unscrupulous poster who will use it to make ad hominen attacks....... One of my sibling was the result of rape.